There is only one good, knowledge and one evil, ignorance-Socrates
All things being equal, the simplest explanation or solution tends to be the best one-Akom, 14th century logician.
It is said that having and raising children is one of the greatest joy if not the best-nothing could be truer especially when it is backed by desire. Perhaps that explains why some couples who have been unable to have kids of their own settle for adoption in order to fulfill that strong aspiration thereby experiencing the adventures of full family life.
Children indeed serve as catalysts that strengthen the bond of couples in love and companionship, motivation and increased zest for life. They can also be an excellent investment that yield unlimited compound interest with the satisfaction left to the realm of imagination only .So many that have tried but recurrently failed resort to understandable self pity, worry and anxiety on one hand and are subjected to harsh mockery and indifference especially from certain cultures that take pride in children as source of wealth and overall achievement. Childless unions tend to be more susceptible to break ups. It is indeed incontestable that a childless marriage is only half marriage especially when the couple desire children. A woman’s emotions, character and disposition are equally enhanced and perfected via motherhood. So, what do you do if you or loved ones have not succeeded in having children and still yearn for? Do you give up and embrace a single or series of opinions or approaches that may be inconclusive and faulty? Certainly not! There is always an answer to every problem only if you know where to find it .There is nothing really impossible. The right information and guided approach backed by empirical expertise can set you free .Information in most cases is the barrier between wealth and poverty as it can be the constraining factor to infertility.
Infertility is described generally as you know as the failure to conceive after a year or more of regular sexual activity and/or inability to carry a pregnancy to term. So many suffer from spontaneous abortion(miscarriages),still birth, premature birth while yet others have not been able to conceive again after the first issue although they are keen to. There are so many factors responsible for infertility and pinpointing the exact cause can be extremely difficult yet very possible or even simple depending of one’s understanding or notion of the word simple in relative terms. Many events and mechanisms must be near perfect for pregnancy to occur. The process of ovulation, fertilization and the journey of the fertilized ovum to the fallopian tube and finally to the uterus are highly intricate as any slight dysfunction may lead to problems. In this issue, there is nothing negligible, all factors are important. Physiological problems, malnutrition, bad habits or exposure to harmful substances can be contributing factors.
As much as sixty to sixty five per cent of all infertility cases are from the female side while sperm factors account for thirty five per cent. Gene factors that affect the anatomy leading to clumpness or immotility are prevalent. Infertility may seem to be on the rise over the last few decades but not profoundly, modern lifestyles and high tech stress has contributed a bit in some cases. The bottom line however is that there is hope for all. With individualized approach to find the underlying cause or sub factors which is highly possible, you can have as many kids as you want and can even choose when to conceive for there are mechanisms that can be used to detect the time of ovulation-with some over the counter and self tests you can use in the comfort of your home.
You can get the best advice, referrals, attention, guidance that will conscientiously work with you for your best interest to a swift sustained conception, putting aside your initial frustrations/failures. Making well informed, self protective choices can make all the difference. Why settle for adoptions, surrogacy, egg donations, in vitro artificial insemination or the obdurate opinion of a single physician or series of unenlightened ones stemmed from ignorance when you can conceive naturally, especially when these other methods have recurrently failed or stressful? Yes, nothing could be more satisfying than conceiving and staying fine till labor time, successful delivery and ultimately witnessing your child’s birthday!
Too good to be true is a familiar saying which should be shirked sometimes as many things could be too real to be fake. In any case, everything in medicine is a therapeutic trial and there’s a ton of medical literature being overlooked which when carefully analyzed reveal answers to specific or generic cases. As the DNA theory suggests that everyone is different, each patient is to be considered on an individual basis which is backed by Moses Maimonides who more than 800 years ago said, ‘ The physician should not treat the ailment but the patient suffering from it’’. This statement is most apt and applicable to cases of infertility. Pragmatic clinical skills and evaluations must go hand in hand with tests to achieve optimal results, for getting best results is the ultimate aim.